A house with kids in it breaks smart home gear in ways the reviews never mention. Things get unplugged, driven over, and asked to work while somebody is yelling. This is the stuff that holds up.
The pattern with smart home gear in a family house is that the clever features go unused and the boring ones get used constantly. Nobody in this house has ever set a scene. Everybody uses the thing that quietly removes a chore.
So the filter I apply is simple. Does it remove a job that was actually costing someone time, and does it keep working when it gets treated badly? Anything that only passes the first test becomes a gadget you maintain instead of one that helps.